Date: 2018-01-13 08:14
Women have all the power. Due to slut shaming they don't message guys first unless you're A) a male model or B) look like you have a lot of money.
Online dating is pointless for men since men have to do all the work.
Ladies: every minute you 8767 re spending with the wrong guy is a minute not spent with a much better match. The bad news is that the design of our brains has made the hot-cold, on again-off again treatment of bad boys inherently addictive.
Now I'd ask that you reconsider your question. If your question was based upon a society of equals who were all knowledgeable, reasonable, autonomous and yet cooperative we could easily reason that people would treat each other with kindness and respect. However we've created a system of inequality in which the common citizen holds little if any power and instead lives by the whims of society at large. This system promotes competition as it is undeniably preferable to gain power and move up the social ladder.
I have found that going to a good therapist and dealing with my attachment issues has been very worthwhile and has helped to change my behaviour. Without that professional help i was just feeling frustrated that i could not seem to magically reach the level of healthiness and confidence that is so well illustrated in this article.
But the reason women always slept around is they're wired that way. As well as the evidence accumulated by Bergner you can look at "sperm wars" and paternity testing for proof. Why do sperm fight and kill one another? They have to if they want a chance at a fertilising an egg, because women have always slept around. And there were a lot of surprised people around when DNA testing of children first became possible.
So here 8767 s my secret: even though I wrote this book about women and love, I 8767 m actually not a woman. That whole story I tell about having written the book before my sex-change operation? I made it all up. I 8767 ve been 655% a guy the whoooole time.
All you want is what most beta men want. Sex with random women without any commitment or responsible to that woman until YOU fall in love with her then she will be expected to commit to you only. Can you see how childish your expectations are? I mean what is the difference between your desires and most 65 year old males?
Suppose you're a man who's really into someone. If you suspect other men are uninterested , it means less competition. You therefore have an added incentive to send a message. You might start thinking: maybe she's lonely... maybe she's just waiting to find a guy who appreciates her... at least I won't get lost in the crowd... maybe these small thoughts, plus the fact that you really think she's hot, prod you to action. You send her the perfectly crafted opening message.